The Big thing that changed everything in my 2017

It's no longer January but it's never too late to review and appreciate you learned from the past. Time, for the most part, is illusory and the things that happened during '2017' can seem both distant and just yesterday all at the same time. I just celebrated my birthday and I realized how so many … Continue reading The Big thing that changed everything in my 2017

How to analyze your BREAKUPS and TRAINWRECKS, belief systems – for noobs

Hello, I'm Maalia, and my best friend, my brother has been going through shitty times. His longterm girlfriend who he thought was gonna marry, cheated on him. And his rebound was this hot, low-key celebrity who happened to be self-destructive and did cocaine. Every time he felt like shit, he would talk to me until … Continue reading How to analyze your BREAKUPS and TRAINWRECKS, belief systems – for noobs

Suggestions for my future Self: 10.0 rituals that will make Life better.

You my dear heart has always been a well-spring of ideas. Today, this day of Spring, I store them in a box for you. For a cold winter day, when your soul feels lost at night. Pick a number, any number, and with a degree of faith read and do whatever feels right. You were … Continue reading Suggestions for my future Self: 10.0 rituals that will make Life better.

3 QUICK Ideas to find more FEELS to be grateful for!

  1. Explain your favorite song as if to someone who's never heard it before, explain how it saved you , its favorite instrument, what you see when you imagine this one song in your head 2. Explain your favorite person to me, just top of mind. Explain the one thing they did for you … Continue reading 3 QUICK Ideas to find more FEELS to be grateful for!

What do you want people to fall in love with you for ?

A real question. A sincere question. An interesting playgound for people who are jaded about self-love —but are still bought into the existence of romance. How about let’s try to write a love story? how they fall in love with -YOU the realest, strongest, and most wildest parts of you. You better put aside an … Continue reading What do you want people to fall in love with you for ?

How to use writing for self-healing (3 IDEAS!)

01. Write like no one is watching, write like you’re only here for the act of purging and writing itself, write like you’re going crazy. Write like you’re exorcising demons unto a page, write like you’re jumping off of a cliff trying to grasp at the words that would nail down the coffin of those … Continue reading How to use writing for self-healing (3 IDEAS!)

PRO self-care tip: What would the best most perfect love of your life be DOING RIGHT NOW????

Ask this question.   The moment you feel like you're in the pits of despair and in the tumbling whirlwind of a really crap day. Just ask this one quality question: what would perfect boyfriend/girlfriend/ s.o. do for me right now ?   oh oh oh, they would ask me like in the nicest and … Continue reading PRO self-care tip: What would the best most perfect love of your life be DOING RIGHT NOW????